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Becky Sharp
These Lightsaber Chopsticks make eating sushi even more fun, because Star Wars stuff makes everything better. It is practially using the force on kids, when you them to try eating some sushi. I had to use Jedi mind tricks to get my kids to try sushi, until I made it fun. These Lightsaber chopsticks make sushi night something the kids
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Dougie Giroux
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Alpha Grillers Instant Read Meat Thermometer
Dougie Giroux
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Mobile Laptop Desk with Adjustable Tabletop & Footrest
Mike O'Connor
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George Vincent Willis
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Krisi Miller
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Andrea Nemo
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Joseph Stepke
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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John O'Connor
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Krisi Miller
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Bernie Fussenegger
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Shark OFF Shark Repellent Bracelet
Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mattel Classic Football Handheld
Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
Check out this furniture you’ll love and get great ideas on how to decorate your home or office. There is furniture for every style and budget in this list. Explore this assortment of home & office furniture, so you can get great stuff. Whether you’re shopping for headboards, bedroom sets, sofas, or whatever this is the site to use. You
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Krisi Miller
There’s always a wonderful opportunity to pamper the senior woman you cherish with these fantastic gifts for older women. No need to wait for special occasions like Mother’s Day or her birthday – surprise her at any time with sentimental home decor or cutting-edge technology that brings her closer to family. Whether it’s gifts for grandmas who enjoy cooking for
Han Solo Ice Cube Tray
John O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
“How to Make Sh*t Happen: Make more money, get in better shape, create epic relationships and control” I read this book around the same time that I read UnF*ck Yourself… By Gary John Bishop. Both of them had a lot of reviews on Amazon, a good price, and a catchy title so I had to get them. I’m also really
5-Year Home Maintenance Log Book
Craig Wasilchak
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The Cubes Geometric Structured Sleeping Pillow
Mike O'Connor
CHECK IT OUT The Cubes by F1F2 geometric structured sleeping pillow is a memory foam pillow built a geometric structure of 70 cubes. This memory foam pillow helps if you’re a restless sleeper, big snorer, or suffer from insomnia. The Cubes pillow was made to be great for anyone that tosses and turns all night so give it a try if
Human Skull Fireplace Logs
Mike O'Connor
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Mike O'Connor
Oakland McCulloch is an inspiring person in a lot of ways to a lot of people. I didn’t know anything about Oakland when I bought his book, “Your Leadership Legacy: Becoming the Leader You Were Meant to Be.” I have learned a lot of things and met a lot of great people by randomly buying books and reading them. I
Delta Faucet HydroRain 2-in-1 Shower Head
Krisi Miller
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Best Choice Products Mirrored Jewelry Cabinet Armoire
Mike O'Connor
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Medieval Knight’s Helmet Decanter Set
Mike O'Connor
CHECK IT OUT The Medieval Knight’s Helmet Decanter Set is a great gift for the man-cave. It’s also a great way to store your favorite whiskey! The original Medieval Knight’s Helmet Decanter Set was a top seller in the 60s so we had one in our house. Maybe it’s the nostalgia, but I had to include this in the gift
Moccamaster KBGV Select Coffee Maker
Krisi Miller
The Moccamaster KBGV Select Coffee Maker is a great gift idea for coffee lovers , because it sets the bench-mark for perfect at home brewing. SPN is reader supported, some products displayed may earn us a commission. Learn more . Moccamaster 53944 KBGV Select 10-Cup Coffee Maker, Candy Apple Red, 40 ounce, 1.25l Moccamaster KBGV Select Coffee Maker The Moccamaster KBGV
Easybreath Snorkeling Mask
Candy
The Tribord Easybreath snorkeling mask is a top-seller because it provides an unobstructed 180° field of vision without the fogging up. Its dual air flow system keeps you breathing without fogging up the mask. Full FACE ANTIFOG Snorkel MASK Check out the absolute best antifog snorkeling mask on the market today! This mask provides an unobstructed 180° field of vision
Brizoft – Electric Foot Grinder
rita
The Brizoft – Electric Foot Grinder makes our list of great gifts for women . It also makes a great gift idea for anyone that takes footcare seriously. Brizoft – Brizoft Electric Foot Grinder, Brizoft Foot Shaver, Brizoft Dead Foot Skin Remover, Foot Care, Hard Rupture Skin Trimmer, USB Portable Electric Vacuum Adsorption Foot Grinder (Blue) Brizoft Electric Foot Grinder
Wearable Snow Sled Legs
Mike O'Connor
Take sledding to the next level of fun by hitting the slopes with sled legs. You will be able to hit the slopes running…literally running at top speed. What could go wrong? I know that I’m buying some next year for Christmas gifts. I’m going to tell the kids to simply take a few running steps and slide down the
Shoes: Great Gift Ideas For Shoe Lovers & People With Feet
Mike O'Connor
Shoes for everyone Shoes are something that most of us wear everyday, so they’re important. Therefore, we had to collect a wide array of shoes for everyone from shoe lovers to people that just like their feet. Are you a shoe lover? Or do you just enjoy your feet and want them to be happy, healthy, and pretty? Have no
Beefer the 1,500-Degree Grill – Great Gift Idea For Cooks
Mike O'Connor
CHECK IT OUT What is a Beefer exactly? Yea, I didn’t think it was a 1,500-degree gas grill either. You probably don’t want to know what my original guess was due to my habit of living in the gutter. I guess I should have also thought about something involving BBQ. The more that I learn about this ceramic gas burner
Nike Women’s Free RN Flyknit – Shoes
Mike O'Connor
Previous Next Check them out The Nike Women’s Free RN Flyknit is a great shoe for women that love to run. This means it is also a great gift for women that love to run. You just have to know her size and favorite color. You can look in her other shoe for the size and surely
Review The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do…
Mike O'Connor
This is a book review “The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business” and some personal reflection. Thank you for giving me a copy of the book, Carter Hagen! I had this book on my desk for a few months just sitting there in the stack. About halfway through the prologue, I began to
Colleen Hoover’s Heart Bones – Book Review By Tina Oliver
Tina Oliver
“I wonder what kind of upbringing is worse for a human. The kind where you’re sheltered and loved to the point that you aren’t aware of how cruel the world can be until it’s too late to acquire the necessary coping, skills or the kind of household I grew up in. The ugliest version of a family, where coping is